Undating...funny how that adjective/verb has come up three times this week. What is even more coincidental is that it is the premise of a book that was bought for me by one of my "undatees" on Sunday, titled "Adventures of a Salsa Goddess". (Yes, I love salsa dancing and undatees that buy me books).
Funny enough, this book (almost 100 pages in) has mentioned merely two pages about salsa dancing and is pretty much based on a woman over 40 who has never been married, but takes on an assignment as a columnist to hook a man before the end of the year...hmm, I am intrigued yet neither apply to me...or do they (well not the over 40 part), how horrifying...to think I could be 40 and never married. HAH! Knowing me, well maybe you do, but I think i'd be on husband 3 by then!
So the book takes you on this adventure of the woman who goes on "undates"... the relevance, is that its just what seems to work out for my compadres and I these days.
Funny how things seem to work when we avoid labels...many that I know are label whores, Gucci, Fendi, Prada..umm I dont know..Ferragamo, but when it comes to dating...nope- no labels, just friends!
Dating Sucks, relationships are worse, but friends...there is the key to your success...so lets all undate, drink together, dance together...and well, build giant snow penises together until we find the undate that fits like a glove!
Moral of the story, dont buy a book that you think is really about salsa dancing just because it says so in the title!